by Raising Relatives | Jul 16, 2024 | Working Together For the Good of the Child In Your Care
When welcoming an older child to your home, it can be challenging to strike a balance. You don’t want to come on too strong and overwhelm them. You also don’t want to be too relaxed or laid back because you want them to feel welcome and safe. You can do several things...
by Raising Relatives | Jul 16, 2024 | Working Together For the Good of the Child In Your Care
When you first took in your grandkids (or other loved one), you may have done it because it was “the right thing to do.” The kids didn’t do anything to deserve this, and family cares for family. But it still feels hard. It might help to focus on the significant...
by Raising Relatives | Jul 16, 2024 | Working Together For the Good of the Child In Your Care
It’s challenging to raise your grandchild (or other loved one) in today’s world. Your grandchild’s early life experiences can make your role in their life feel overwhelming. The impacts of their trauma or prenatal exposure to drugs or alcohol can create...
by Raising Relatives | Jul 16, 2024 | Relationship with Child’s Parent
Helping raise your grandchild, nephew, or other relative gives you a unique opportunity to offer nurture and support to the child’s parents. The parents may feel shame or guilt about not being able to parent this child. And it’s not unusual for your...
by Raising Relatives | Jul 16, 2024 | Relationship with Child’s Parent
Many grandparents or aunts are raising their grandchild or nephew because the child’s parents are addicted. It is easy and very tempting to judge the child’s parents as bad and irresponsible. While you love them, you may be angry at them for putting you in this...