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Welcoming a New Child to Your Home

When you agree to open your home to a relative child, you are agreeing to so much more than providing a clean, safe bed and regular meals. You are agreeing to offer them an emotionally and physically safe place to heal from the challenges they encountered before...

How to Build Your Family’s Resilience

We all want the children we love to be able to face hard times and cope with them successfully. The ability to “bounce back” from life’s challenges can be part of a child’s naturally wired temperament. However, other kids may need help learning how to develop their...

How to Respond When a Child or Teen is Having a Meltdown

What do you do when your grandchild pitches a fit in Aisle 2 of the local grocery store? Or when your teenage niece screams at her sibling, slams doors, or kicks walls? It's a stressful moment for everyone, and your nerves are frayed while you figure out what to do....

Healing from Trauma/Neglect/Abuse

Welcoming a New Child to Your Home

Welcoming a New Child to Your Home

When you agree to open your home to a relative child, you are agreeing to so much more than providing a clean, safe bed and regular meals. You are agreeing to offer them an emotionally and physically safe place to heal from the challenges they encountered before...

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How to Build Your Family’s Resilience

How to Build Your Family’s Resilience

We all want the children we love to be able to face hard times and cope with them successfully. The ability to “bounce back” from life’s challenges can be part of a child’s naturally wired temperament. However, other kids may need help learning how to develop their...

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Impacts of Prenatal Exposure to Alcohol and Drugs

Helping Tweens and Teens Manage Money

Helping Tweens and Teens Manage Money

When a child’s developing brain is impacted by exposure to drugs and alcohol during pregnancy, early loss, neglect, or other trauma, they may struggle to understand money. Learning the value of money and how to manage it can also be an overwhelming task for kids with...

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Challenging Behaviors

Welcoming a New Child to Your Home

Welcoming a New Child to Your Home

When you agree to open your home to a relative child, you are agreeing to so much more than providing a clean, safe bed and regular meals. You are agreeing to offer them an emotionally and physically safe place to heal from the challenges they encountered before...

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ADHD

Raising Capable Kids

Raising Capable Kids

Raising a child with ADHD, autism, or other neurodiversity can be a new challenge for many grandparents, aunts, or uncles who don't understand the child's diagnosis. However, whether this child has a diagnosis, disability, or other brain-based difference, it’s...

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Encouraging Curiosity in Children

Encouraging Curiosity in Children

“Why does the plant need water, Grandma?” “How does that plane stay up in the air?” “What do birds think about when they sleep?” Does your grandchild (nephew, niece, or cousin) ask these questions? Do you feel frustrated, overwhelmed, or stumped by the many questions...

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Disrupting Birth Order

Welcoming a Sibling Group to Your Home

Welcoming a Sibling Group to Your Home

You and the members of your family have significant changes ahead to consider. Your grandchildren (or nieces and nephews or siblings) are coming to live with you for a while because their parents cannot keep them safe right now. However, it's critical to remember that...

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Helping A Child Heal from Sexual Abuse

Truths Every Child Needs to Hear

Truths Every Child Needs to Hear

When a child has experienced abuse, neglect, or loss, they often take those events into their hearts and minds and then believe things about themselves that are untrue. They frequently feel guilt or shame as if the abuse or chaotic conditions of their life are their...

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School Issues for Foster & Kinship Kids

Technology/Internet and Our Kids

Self-Care for Kinship and Foster Parents

How to Build Your Family’s Resilience

How to Build Your Family’s Resilience

We all want the children we love to be able to face hard times and cope with them successfully. The ability to “bounce back” from life’s challenges can be part of a child’s naturally wired temperament. However, other kids may need help learning how to develop their...

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Raising This Child Matters!

Raising This Child Matters!

Occasionally, it’s good for your mental and emotional health to pause and consider what you are doing and why it matters. Kinship caregivers play a unique and vital role in a child’s healing and overall well-being. Do you stop to think about why and how to be sure you...

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Understanding and Preventing Blocked Care

Understanding and Preventing Blocked Care

Raising a family member's child is a challenging responsibility. This child brings joy and laughter to your life. But they also struggle with the losses they've endured. Their behaviors may be challenging to manage. This child might have learning needs or emotional...

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Relationship with Child’s Parent

How to Build Your Family’s Resilience

How to Build Your Family’s Resilience

We all want the children we love to be able to face hard times and cope with them successfully. The ability to “bounce back” from life’s challenges can be part of a child’s naturally wired temperament. However, other kids may need help learning how to develop their...

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Working Together For the Good of the Child In Your Care

How to Build Your Family’s Resilience

How to Build Your Family’s Resilience

We all want the children we love to be able to face hard times and cope with them successfully. The ability to “bounce back” from life’s challenges can be part of a child’s naturally wired temperament. However, other kids may need help learning how to develop their...

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Truths Every Child Needs to Hear

Truths Every Child Needs to Hear

When a child has experienced abuse, neglect, or loss, they often take those events into their hearts and minds and then believe things about themselves that are untrue. They frequently feel guilt or shame as if the abuse or chaotic conditions of their life are their...

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